How to Elope in Washington State?
Planning to elope in Washington State? This guide will walk you through everything you need to know — from choosing your location and applying for your marriage license to planning a day that is created just for you and your partner.
Washington is one of the most beautiful places to elope, from misty forests and rugged coastlines to alpine mountain views. But before you say “I do” in the PNW, there are a few legal steps and planning details you’ll want to know.
Why Couples Choose to Elope in Washington State?
Washington is one of the few places where you can wake up surrounded by evergreen forests, exchange vows beside an alpine lake, explore rugged coastlines, and end your day watching the sunset over the mountains. Whether you’re dreaming of a quiet ceremony surrounded by nature or a full-day adventure together, Washington offers endless ways to make your wedding day feel like your own.
Why Work With a Washington Elopement Photographer?
Your photographer isn’t just there to take photos. They’re often the person helping you navigate locations, timelines, weather changes, permits, and all the little moments that make your day feel effortless such as staying fed and hydrated (I'll do that!).
Step 1: How Do I Choose My Location?
The first step is deciding where you want your story to unfold.
Washington offers endless scenery, including:
- Mountain overlooks
- Evergreen forests
- Wildflower meadows
- Lakeside locations
- Coastal cliffs
- National and state parks
- Private cabins and retreats
Popular Washington Elopement Locations
Olympic National Park
- Beaches, rainforest, mountains
- Great for couples wanting variety
Mount Rainier National Park
- Iconic mountain views
- Wildflowers in summer
- Classic Washington scenery
North Cascades
- Rugged alpine landscapes
- Less “traditional” mountain feel
Washington Coast
- Moody, romantic, windswept vibes
Snoqualmie / Central Cascades
- Easier access from the Seattle area
Tip: Your location may determine whether you need a permit, so check requirements early. The state asks for 60 days notice minimum to apply for permits.
Step 2: When Should We Elope?
Washington weather can change quickly, so consider the experience you want. With each season, Washington gives a different look and feel.
Spring: Lush greenery, waterfalls, fewer crowds
Summer: Best access to mountain locations and wildflowers
Fall: Moody forests, golden tones, fewer crowds
Winter: Snowy landscapes and cozy adventure vibes
Keep in mind that some mountain roads and trails are seasonal and may close depending on conditions. We also follow Leave No Trace principles when exploring Washington’s wild places. These landscapes are a gift, and it’s important that we protect them so future couples can experience the same beauty.
Step 3: How to Apply for A Marriage License
Before you can say “I do,” you’ll need to apply for your Washington marriage license. The process is fairly straightforward, and couples can apply through the county auditor or recording office. Washington requires a 3-day waiting period before your license can be used, so be sure to plan ahead.
Washington counties typically offer three ways to complete the application process:
1. Online
Start your marriage license application online through your chosen county’s website. After submitting your application, you’ll receive a transaction number and instructions for completing the process.
Depending on the county, you may need to finalize the application in person, where you’ll provide identification, complete signatures, and pay the required fee.
2. In Person
You can apply directly at your county’s recording office.
Before heading in:
- Complete the marriage license application ahead of time (but do not sign it until instructed)
- Bring valid identification
- Bring your payment method (fees vary by county)
- Check your county’s office hours and appointment requirements
Some counties allow both applicants to complete the process together in person, while others may have slightly different procedures, so it’s always best to confirm with your specific county.
3. By Mail
Some Washington counties allow couples to complete the marriage license process by mail.
Typically, you will:
- Download and complete the application
- Sign the application in front of a notary (do not sign beforehand)
- Mail the completed paperwork and payment to the county recording office
- Receive your marriage license packet by mail
Because procedures and fees vary between counties, always check your county’s requirements before choosing this option.
Pro Tip for Eloping Couples: Don’t wait until the week of your elopement to apply! Washington requires a 3-day waiting period after your marriage license is issued. Your ceremony must occur within 60 days of receiving the license.
Step 4: How Do I Choose My Officiant & Witnesses?
Choosing your officiant and witnesses is not as complicated as it may seem. You can have a friend be your officiant and if you’re eloping without guests, don’t worry — there are still options for finding witnesses. Here are the 2 main requirements.
Washington requires:
- An authorized officiant
- Two witnesses
Your witnesses must be physically present when you sign your marriage license.
What if we aren't having guests? No guests? No problem! Witnesses do not have to be there for the actual ceremony. You can find people nearby your ceremony location and explain the situation. Most people are excited to sign as a witness!
Your officiant can be:
- A religious official
- A judge or court official
- Someone ordained through an organization recognized by Washington law
Many elopement couples choose a close friend or family member to officiate their ceremony.
Pro tip* Your photographer (that's me!) is likely ordained. I am ordained through the Universal Life Church and welcome LGBTQ+!
If you would like to hire an officiant:
Here is a list of officiants in Washington State (includes officiants LGBTQ+):
https://www.anotheronetiestheknot.com/
https://lesliesundquist.wixsite.com/elopementofficiant
Feeling overwhelmed by permits, locations and timelines? That’s where I come in. I help couples plan Washington elopements that feel relaxed, intentional, and tell your story...while capturing every moment along the way.
Step 5: Do We Need A Permit to Elope?
Depending on your location, you may need a photography or ceremony permit. Permits can take up to 60 days so be sure to check the specific location and contact the official office if you have questions.
Always check with:
- National parks
- State parks
- Land managers
- Private venues
Permit rules vary by location, group size, and activity.
Step 6: Plan Your Elopement Experience
Your elopement does not have to be “just a ceremony.”
Many couples create a full-day experience including:
- Getting ready together
- Writing private vows
- A first look
- Hiking to a viewpoint
- Picnic with champagne or cake
- Exploring nearby locations
- Sunset portraits
- A cozy dinner afterward
Your wedding day should feel like you — not like a smaller version of a traditional wedding. The beauty of an elopement is that there are no rules for what your day has to look like. These are just some ideas that couples choose to include, but remember: this day is about YOU. Plan it in a way that feels meaningful and true to your story.
Some couples choose to document their entire day, starting with quiet morning moments like sharing the first sip of coffee together, getting ready, and soaking in every part of the experience. Others plan a shorter celebration with sunset portraits, a scenic adventure, and a champagne spray to end the evening.
Whether you envision a full-day experience or a short and sweet celebration, your elopement should be a reflection of your love, your connection, and the memories you want to create together. It’s uniquely yours.
Step 7: Hire Your Washington Elopement Vendors
Your photographer can often help guide your entire experience — from location ideas to timelines and vendor recommendations.
Some couples consider booking:
- Elopement photographer
- Hair and makeup artist
- Florist
- Officiant
- Private chef
- Planner or coordinator
Washington Elopement Checklist
☐ Choose your location
☐ Check permit requirements
☐ Choose your date
☐ Apply for marriage license
☐ Wait required 3 days
☐ Hire vendors
☐ Plan ceremony details
☐ Choose witnesses
☐ Exchange vows
☐ Sign and submit marriage license
☐ Celebrate your first day as newlyweds
Leave No Trace: Respecting Washington’s Wild Places
Washington’s landscapes are some of the most breathtaking places to exchange vows, and with that beauty comes the responsibility to protect them.
When planning your elopement, following Leave No Trace principles helps ensure these incredible locations remain beautiful for future couples, hikers, and wildlife.
A few ways to practice Leave No Trace during your Washington elopement:
- Stay on designated trails and durable surfaces to protect fragile plants and ecosystems.
- Pack out everything you bring in, including floral scraps, food, and personal items.
- Avoid disturbing wildlife and give animals plenty of space. This is their home.
- Respect other visitors by keeping noise levels low and remembering these spaces are shared.
- Leave natural elements where they belong — don’t pick wildflowers, move rocks, or alter the landscape.
- Choose sustainable details like reusable décor, locally sourced florals, and eco-conscious vendors.
Your wedding day is about celebrating your love story while also honoring the place that makes it possible. The goal is to leave the landscape just as beautiful (or even better) than you found it.
Planning Your Washington Elopement with C. Marilyn Photography
Your elopement is so much more than just a ceremony — it’s a day filled with moments you’ll remember forever. Choosing a photographer who understands your vision, helps you feel comfortable in front of the camera, and knows how to navigate Washington’s landscapes can make all the difference.
As your photographer I can help you:
- Find the perfect location for your vision
- Build a timeline that feels natural and stress-free
- Navigate permits and planning details
- Capture the quiet, emotional moments along the way
- And most importantly, ensure you have fun. You're getting married after all!
Planning an elopement can feel overwhelming, but you don’t have to figure it all out alone. From choosing a location and creating a timeline to capturing the quiet, emotional moments that make your day yours, I’m here to help guide you every step of the way.
Ready to start planning your Washington elopement? I’d love to help you create a day that tells your story. See my elopement offerings here.
Washington Elopement FAQs
Do I need a permit to elope in Washington?
It depends on your location. Many public lands, national parks, and state parks have specific rules regarding ceremonies, professional photography, and group sizes. Always check the requirements for your chosen location before planning your elopement.
How many witnesses are required for a Washington elopement?
Washington requires two witnesses to sign your marriage license. Your witnesses must be physically present during the ceremony.
Can we get married anywhere in Washington?
Not exactly. While Washington has countless beautiful locations, some areas have restrictions for ceremonies, professional photography, or gatherings. Always confirm whether your chosen location allows weddings or requires a permit.
How many guests can we bring?
Every location has different requirements and guest count maximums. When determining your location, keep in mind how many guests you want to include. Remember, elopements are for very small groups. The more guests you include, the more possibilities of restrictions and permits may occur.
How far in advance should we apply for our marriage license?
Plan to apply at least a few days before your ceremony because Washington has a mandatory 3-day waiting period before your license becomes valid. Your marriage license is valid for 90 days after it is issued.
Can we elope in a Washington national park?
Yes, but requirements vary by park. Many national parks require permits for wedding ceremonies and may have restrictions on locations, guest counts, and activities.
Do we need an officiant for our Washington elopement?
Yes. Washington requires an authorized officiant to perform your ceremony and complete your marriage license.
Can our dog be part of our Washington elopement?
Sometimes! Many couples include their dogs in their elopement, but pet rules vary depending on the location. Always check leash requirements and whether pets are allowed in your chosen area.
What is the best time of year to elope in Washington?
It depends on the experience you want! Summer offers the best access to mountain locations, fall brings moody forests and golden tones, spring offers lush greenery and waterfalls, and winter creates a cozy snow-covered atmosphere.
Do we have to hike to have a Washington adventure elopement?
Not at all. An adventure elopement can look different for every couple. It can be a short walk to a viewpoint, a beach ceremony at sunset, a cabin celebration, or a full-day mountain experience. Your elopement should reflect what feels meaningful to you.
Do you have a list of vendors?
Couples who book with me receive a detailed planning guide which includes my preferred vendor list so you can plan with some of my favorite vendors in Washington state.
My gift to you - A practical packing list
Washington Elopement Packing List
☐ Marriage license
☐ Rings
☐ Vows
☐ Comfortable shoes
☐ Layers/jacket
☐ Water + snacks
☐ Weather protection
☐ Touch-up makeup
☐ Bouquet
☐ Champagne or picnic items
